The woven art of friendship

The Art of FriendshipOn Saturday, my friend Louise brought us together for a day of making. Lou, Jo, myself and our girls spent the afternoon creating Christmas wreaths from natural materials like leaves, native flowers, rattan, ivy trails and wisteria tendrils we cut straight from the vine. Natural art forms woven tight with the sacred art of friendship.

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First we made a loop out of rattan, deciding how big we wanted our wreath to be. We wrapped the extra rattan around the loop, weaving it in and out.

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The girls were full of questions and calls for help with design or structure. The day hummed along absorbed by conversation and doing. How good it felt to be caught up in a communal flow, where time became a place and thoughts effortlessly became words. The gentle, soothing murmur of mothers connected to mothers, connected to daughters, connected to earth.

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Making something together, using our hands to translate our hearts, is surely the best way we can come together. True creativity urges us to simply be ourselves, present in our work. The more we sat together, weaving and wondering, the more I realised that perhaps this is what is missing in my modern life. The stillness and solidarity between people, working on a shared task. The messages silently passed onto our girls that day — and many others just like it — cannot be taught in words.

Some special ways to come together with friends:

  • Prepare a feast together and linger over the eating
  • Papercraft side by side, making flowers or decorations
  • Gather wood to make a bonfire together and share stories
  • Working bees are a simple way to collaborate at one another’s homes
  • Bring a ‘pot luck’ picnic dinner to a favourite beach or park

Do you share things like this with your friends?


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    • says

      Thanks Mrs BC. I honestly think that this is what a lot of mumma she are missing in their lives. To create together is so meaningful and provides such clarity.

  1. says

    Oh My lordy, I just love this, mothers with daughters, friends together, we do it also and I just love it. Fabulous wreaths and lovely to drop by after such a long time away… what was I thinking???

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